Book Excerpts

 

(Here’s An “Ancient” Video Of Me Promo’ing An Earlier Version Of My Book!  I Am A Perfectionist So Some Chapter Titles Have Changed!)

IT TOOK ME 19 YEARS TO WRITE THESE

BOOKS.  THEY ARE FINALLY

“READY TO BE RELEASED!”

THEY ARE MY VERSION OF “PERFECT” …  

BECAUSE I  EDITED IT AND

“WENT BACK TO THE DRAWING

BOARD” A BILLION TIMES! 

MY BOOK IS NOW

ALMOST 

800 PAGES

SO I HAD TO BREAK IT DOWN  

INTO VOLUMES 1 & 2!  bahahhahahaha!  

 

(you can view more of my “ancient” (lol) 

videos at www.youtube.com/sistagirllondon)

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“LITTLE-KNOWN”

INSIDE INFORMATION 

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**HERE ARE THE **EXCITING**

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“There will ALWAYS be a woman for a Hustler/Cheater/Abuser cos there will always be some chick who believes she can change him. This book makes sure that YOU are not that woman … unless you CHOOSE to be!” - London, SistaGirl #1

HEY EVERYBODY!  THAT'S ME IN THE ABOVE RELATIONSHIP VIDEOS! The videos are from my book, "How To Beat That B*tch At His Own Game: THE HUSTLER/CHEATER/ABUSER'S PLAYBOOK"

 

I HAVE WORKED FOR YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS (lol) ON GETTING THIS RELATIONSHIP TEXTBOOK TO PERFECTION FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS!  DONATE  ($25 on this website.  $39 on my gofundme) TO MY FILM FUNDRAISER AND RECEIVE YOUR COPY!  THANK YOU!!!!

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JUST LIKE YOU, I was raised to be a nice, good, church girl … to find a man and life would be perfect.  But when I got into the REAL world of RELATIONSHIPS … I found out that being a “Nice, Good Woman” will NOT protect you from or CHANGE a “BAD” man.  I REFUSED to turn into one of those Angry, Bitter, Bruised, In Denial, “Hold My Head Up High While I Suffer In Silence,” Drunk, “Afraid To Love And Trust,” “I Been Through So Much With Men,” “Men Did Me Wrong,” Women so … I entered the WORLD of the WOLF, the HUSTLER, the LEECH, the ABUSER, the CHEATER and the SWINDLER of women’s hearts, vaginas and cashI LEARNED Their Game And Then I PLAYED It!  Now I am here to EXPOSE and UNMASK them! I’m here to tell you in step-by-step, sentence-by-sentence **DETAIL** WHY a Hustler/Cheater/Abuser chooses YOU!  I’m here to help you ANALYZE and THOROUGHLY DISSECT the men you are dealing with … and help you analyze and thoroughly dissect YOURSELF … BEFORE you give him your cooch, lose your HEART … and your CA$$$H!  This Book SAVED And HEALED Me.  It Is My Prayer That It SAVES And HEALS You Too!”

London, SistaGirl #1, Author

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Excerpt From The Chapter "Stop Bringing Your Good Booty Calls To The Family Breakfast Table!:

Have you ever met a guy who romanced you soooo STRONG, soooo HEAVY and “put it on you” soooo GOOD … that you never even noticed how quickly he started asking you for money? Or, have you ever met a guy who was soooo sexy, irresistible, attentive and seemed so compatible and INTO YOU … that, to this day, you still haven’t figured out how you wound up at the shopping mall buying him thousands of dollars of clothes and technological trinkets? 

 

Or, have you ever met a guy you had to have soooo bad that you were consumed by him and felt yourself chasing and pursuing him soooo strong … that you got MAD and DEFENDED HIM when your friends asked you:

“WHY are you paying HIS back child support when you can barely take care of your own kids?  Why are you buying HIM a huge flat-screen TV when YOUR kids need a tutor?  What do you mean … you got HIM his own credit card to use cos he had run up the limits on YOUR other cards? … What the “f?”  WAIT A MINUTE!  WHY are you at the courthouse paying thousands of dollars for HIS unpaid parking tickets?  HOLD UP!  WHY are you letting him convince you to move to a bigger apartment when you can barely afford the rent on the place you and your kids are living in NOW?  Oh my God!  Are you kidding me?  You co-signed a LOAN for his new car?  And you’re actually going to put HIM with HIS driving record on YOUR car insurance?  That’s going to increase YOUR insurance premiums!  And, now that you’ve done so much for him … What do you mean you can’t find him?  HE’S GONE?   Well, WHERE THE HELL IS HE?  WHY DID YOU RUN AFTER THAT BUM … WHY HAS HE LEFT YOU OWING ALL THIS MONEY and … you’re a smart woman … HOW DID YOU LET THIS MESS HAPPEN TO YOU?” 

 

Girl, tell your family and friends not to worry!  That guy is a HUSTLER and this book is going to SHOW you, STEP-BY-STEP, SENTENCE BY SENTENCE, EXACTLY how … and WHY … you ALLOWED yourself to get hustled by him … AND OTHERS!

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THESE ARE THE

14 WOMEN/ATTITUDES

THAT I WROTE

THIS BOOK FOR!

 

(1) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR COLLEGE GIRLS or “chicks gone wild” who are out there getting drunk, getting “wasted,” and spreading their legs and having “passed out” sex with any and everybody. Being sexually liberated and able to call a guy up for a “booty call” or “uncommitted sex” or “take him home from the club” or “met him online” doesn’t mean you allow any and every ol’ thing to use up your body. You THINK you’re “in control” and you THINK you’re using HIM but actually, sweetie, you are allowing him to USE UP YOU and YOUR COOCH! Do You See Where I’m Coming From?

 
 
 
 
 
 

(2) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR SINGLE MOTHERS who are tired of the dating scene and feel their household is incomplete without a man.  They are tired of being alone and “having to do it all,” and they want themselves and their kids to have a “whole family life.”  However, she is CONTEMPLATING MOVING A MAN UP IN HER HOUSE WITH HER KIDS!!!! STOP!!! HUSTLERS KNOW THAT YOU ARE LONELY, YOU WANT A “DADDY” OR “ROLE MODEL” OR “FATHER FIGURE” FOR YOUR KIDS AND YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE UP THE “KEYS” TO YOUR PERSONAL KINGDOM TO GET A MAN UP IN THERE!!!!!!!  BEFORE you move a man into your house, please read the chapter, “Stop Bringing Your Good Booty Calls To The Family Breakfast Table.” And, if you’re reading this and you know a single mom that’s about to MOVE A MAN IN, GET THIS TEXTBOOK AS A GIFT FOR HER!!!! Don’t just SIT BACK AND TALK ABOUT HOW STUPID SHE IS BEHIND HER BACK!

 
 
 
(3) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR WOMEN WHO QUICKLY START OUT SHOWERING THEIR MAN WITH MONEY AND CLOTHES … THEY BUY HIM WHATEVER HE WANTS AND THEY EXCESSIVELY “DO FOR” A MAN in the hopes that he will see what a nice, good, supportive, giving and “got your back,” woman you are … and reward you with attention, affection, a committed relationship and hopefully, marriage and the wedding of your dreams.
 
Nothing’s wrong with “doing for” your man … as long as y’all are DOING FOR EACH OTHER … as long as you’re BOTH getting what you need out of the relationship.  Just remember that if you BUY the wrong guy NOW, you will “keep paying for him” LATER.  It’s in this book!
 
 
 

(4) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR INDEPENDENT WOMEN with great jobs, their own apartment or home, their own car, good credit and six college degrees. Your money and your great job do NOT make you SAFE FROM a hustler. Just because you “got it going on” as an independent woman doesn’t mean you “got it going on” in your relationships. I’m sure you know MANY women who have great jobs who pick the WORST POSSIBLE GUYS to be in a relationship or marriage with!

 
 
(Note to independent, “good job,” chicks: HUSTLERS HAVE PLACED A TARGET ON YOUR BACK!! HUSTLERS ARE SEEKING YOU OUT!! And you’re jumping into relationships with them left and right, getting “used and abused” like hell … and then calling your friends every five minutes “to vent” because your man won’t “act right” and won’t “change.” But I’m sure you will agree with me that … all of your excessive nagging, complaining and bitching ain’t changing a damn thing!)
 
 

(5) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR NICE, CHURCH-GOING CHICKS. I know you are looking down your nose at my book and its title but … no need to act arrogant, superior and elitist. Just because you are a “Bible-smart,” church-going woman doesn’t mean you are smart in choosing men. That’s why you see so many “religious” women in the prayer line at church on Sundays begging God to send their man home and change his “worldly” ways.

“Just because you MET a man in church does not mean he’s going to STAY in the church. You church chicks still gotta go through sh*t just like chicks who met their man in the club, on an on-line dating site, at a PTA meeting or in the frozen food section of the grocery store.”

 
(NOTE TO MY CHURCH CHICKS: If you say that you’re ONLY going to marry a “God-sent” man who is in the church … and you finally marry a “church man” … and then you gotta call the cops every weekend cos he’s resumed drinking and is beating the hell out of you … who made the mistake in choosing him? You or God? Cos somebody didn’t do their homework and I’m SURE it WASN’T God! THAT’S why you need this book.)
 
 

(6) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR MARRIED OR IN “LONG-TERM COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP” CHICKS who are in abusive relationships and won’t get out because “GETTING OUT IS HARD” AND they are scared of being alone and getting back into the “unknown and scary” dating scene. They feel like it’s easier to “put up with” an abusive man and figure out a way to make THAT work … than to find the “will” and strength to leave and try to wallow through the murky waters of dating to find a good, NON-abusive man. They are swallowing a lot of pain, pride and hurt because  they wouldn’t know what to do or how to act in the “new” dating world. This book will not take any steps FOR you but it will help you decide the steps you should take for yourself.  And, this book will help and guide you so that you don’t pick another abusive loser … unless, of course, you choose to.

 
 
(7) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR THE “I’M A GOOD WOMAN, WHY CAN’T I FIND A GOOD MAN?” CHICKS who have been IN and OUT of relationships, like REVOLVING DOORS, in search of that “one” man … and who can’t figure out why she keeps going from man to man and can’t seem to find the man to marry and have kids with. As soon as you’re out of a relationship with one WRONG man, you’re BACK AT IT AGAIN, back in the saddle, into a relationship with the next WRONG man … without taking the time to figure out why she CHOSE to deal with the LAST TWELVE “WRONG” MEN … who didn’t work out!
 
 
 

(8) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR WOMEN WHO KEEP “RECYCLING” MEN.   You keep going back to the same ol’ man, to that “familiar” and “comfortable” ex-boyfriend who cheated on you a million times … hoping that THIS time you can change him. You left him years ago because, even though he was a nice guy and a “good catch” who had your back … you knew he had several other women he was dealing with and he couldn’t commit to you or any of them. Even though y’all are broken up, you call him constantly because he listens to your struggles with dating other men and he still is there (although on a sometime-y basis) when you need him.

What you DON’T know is that you can’t see the expression on his face when he answers your call, how he “rolls his eyes” and how he wishes that he wasn’t such a nice guy so he could tell you to MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE and STOP CALLING AND PURSUING HIM because … YES he’s your friend … hell, he’s EVERY WOMAN’S friend … but he’s NOBODY’S “MAN.”  This book will help you to CHOOSE TO “MOVE ON” so you can stop being stuck in the past … and so you can stop being part of his “collection” of ex-girlfriends cos … he AIN’T gonna make you his ONE WOMAN.

 
 
(9) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR WOMEN WHO ARE “LOST THEMSELVES IN A MAN,” TYPE CHICKS. It’s like you don’t know who YOU are anymore because you’ve been twisting yourself into emotional pretzels trying to please your man and to be who HE wants you to be. You’re doing all you can to serve him and keep HIM happy … your whole existence, your whole reason for BEING is about HIM … but it’s making YOU miserable, angry, bitter and tearing you up INSIDE. So … “who AM I?” and “finding your way back to YOU” is in this book too!
 
 
 

(10) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR WOMEN WHO THINK THEY HAVE THEIR MAN “COOCHIE-WHIPPED.”  Because … if you THINK you have your man coochie-whipped, sweetie, other women have him that way too!  Just because you think your man “ain’t going nowhere” cos of the way you “put that COOCH on him,” remember, other women have good coochies too! You ain’t the ONLY chick with a good cooch!  If you piss him off or he gets tired of YOUR cooch and leaves you cos he’s had enough of yours and wants to try something different, trust me, he KNOWS where to find the next cooch! So, quit bragging, get off your high horse and get this book so you’ll know how to have something ELSE to offer a “good man” other than what’s between your legs.  Cos he can get THAT anywhere!  YOU do NOT hold the patent, or the trademark or the copyright on GOOD COOCH!!!

 
 
(11) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR THE TOUGH, MAN-EATING, HARD-SHELLED, “I’M GONNA “PLAY” MEN BEFORE THEY “PLAY” ME” CHICKSwho come across as being “oh so confident” and “on top of her game,” who has several male “friends” and married men who all give her money and pay her bills, who seems to attract many men left and right and have them eating out of her hand, who “knows it all” when it comes to men … but she becomes a simpering, sniveling, begging, “put-everything-and-everybody-on-the-backburner” confused fool when it comes to her “boyfriend, ex-boyfriend or guy she WANTS to be her boyfriend” … who refuses to commit to her … who, the more UNAVAILABLE and ELUSIVE he is, the more she CRAVES to be with him … who she RUNS after like she’s a kid waving a dollar and running for the ice cream truck … and she’s TOO WEAK to MAKE him wear a condom when she KEEPS ALLOWING HIM TO “slide by her crib” … when she KNOWS he’s just finished coming from “somebody ELSE’S crib.”
 
 

(12) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR NEWLY-DIVORCED WOMEN WHO NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD BE SINGLE AT THIS POINT AND TIME IN THEIR LIFE AND THEY DON’T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THE SCARY “DATING” SCENEOkay, I know you NEVER thought you would be in this situation but, face it … you ARE.  That’s the first step … facing reality.  Maybe you’re still bewildered, confused, angry and hurting from the way your marriage ended. Maybe you feel unsure of yourself because you’ve just left the “safe cocoon” of your marriage, you feel like the rug was pulled out from you … and now you gotta enter this NIGHTMARE called “The Frightening Singles World” that you’ve heard your unmarried friends constantly bitch about.

 

This book is the perfect transition or “bridge” from your ended marriage to easing yourself back into the “singles” world. The “singles” world is only a nightmare when you don’t know what the hell you’re doing. The waters are only dark and murky when you don’t have this book as your FLASHLIGHT!  This book will hold your hand and help you to determine who you SHOULD deal with by showing you the “game” or “HAND OF CARDS he’s playing with” … from who you should NOT deal with. (Read that sentence again to make sure you understand it! (smile)) This book “ARMS” you with “use-able knowledge” because “USE-ABLE KNOWLEDGE” and INSIDE INFORMATION increases CONFIDENCE and SELF-ESTEEM and helps you make better MAN CHOICES!

 
 
(13) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR THE HURT, ANGRY, BITTER, “I-DON’T-NEED-A-MAN,” “MEN AIN’T SH*T” CHICKS because, if you keep HIDING BEHIND that attitude, you will NEVER find a good man. You will continue to attract hustlers. GOOD men (the kind you’re looking for) are DONE with angry and bitter women who are SURROUNDED by “emotional walls.” They are tired of hearing how you have been continually hurt. Hell, EVERYBODY’S been hurt a time or two!  YOU keeping on “announcing” how you’ve been hurt and “dogged out” by men only makes you look like YOU’RE NOT TOO BRIGHT COS YOU KEEP ON PICKING MEN WHO YOU ALLOW TO DOG YOU OUT AND DO YOU WRONG!! 
 
 
“Good Men” are bored with your same ol’, “men done me wrong” song … however, HUSTLERS LOVE YOU, THEY ADORE YOU, THEY WORSHIP YOU  … and they will pat your back and say, “there, there, boo, stop your crying, baby girl, I’ll make it alright for you,” because they KNOW how to pretend to be the healing salve, to be that “good man” you yearn for … until they’ve sucked everything they need out of you and then they pack THEIR bags (and probably took some of your household belongings!) and THEY’RE GONE TOO … leaving you to DUMP ALL OF YOUR RAGE ON THE NEXT MAN YOU MEET!!
 
 

(14) I WROTE THIS BOOK FOR WOMEN WHO, AS LITTLE GIRLS, THOUGHT THEY HAD BEEN TAUGHT CORRECTLY ABOUT MEN AND RELATIONSHIPS.  Then, when they got out in the REAL world, when they did “everything right” and did “everything they were told about how to be a good wife or a good woman,” they experienced CATASTROPHIC, MAJOR, DEVESTATING HURT!!!  And they found out the truth: that they really didn’t know sh*t about how to deal with TODAY’S men and relationships.”  And now … so they don’t turn into an ANGRY, PSYCHOTIC, CRAZY, WANTING-TO-GET-BACK-AT-MEN-WHO-HURT-THEM chick … they have CLOSED THEIR HEART and sworn off men because they don’t want to get hurt again … and they don’t want to “lose it” and go to jail for tearing up sh*t and beating somebody’s ass!  They are “emotionally afraid” to deal with men because … they’ve picked WRONG before … because they don’t know HOW to go about choosing the right man for them.

 
 
 
Let me ask you this: Think about the many times you’ve loved and given yourself to the wrong men.  Think about the times you’ve been hurt and hustled.  Would you have allowed that to happen to you IF YOU HAD BEEN EDUCATED DIFFERENTLY FOR THE WORLD OF TODAY’S RELATIONSHIPS?  IF YOU KNEW “THE GAME,” You Probably Wouldn’t Have Made HALF Of The “Man Choices” and Relationship Mistakes You MadeUnless you just LOVE dealing with fools and riff-raff, you would have CHOSEN differently if you had KNOWN differently, right? 
 
 

Which is why I wrote this book for you and your friends … so you will KNOW differently … cos the same ol’, same ol’ is NOT working for you! Now you have a choice.  You can keep walking through life and keep settling for and loving the wrong men … and getting hustled and bitching and complaining or … you can educate yourself, heal yourself and change your future.

 

A MAN AIN’T GONNA DO IT FOR YOU!  BUT THIS BOOK WILL SHOW YOU HOW TO DO IT FOR YOURSELF.  I WISH YOU PEACE!

 

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