WHO IS THIS RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK FOR?
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“There will ALWAYS be a woman for a Hustler/Cheater/Abuser cos there will always be some chick who believes she can change him. This workbook makes sure that YOU are not that woman … unless you CHOOSE to be!” - London, SistaGirl #1
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I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR COLLEGE GIRLS or “chicks gone wild” who are out there getting drunk, getting “wasted,” and spreading their legs and having “passed out” sex with any and everybody.
Being sexually liberated and able to call a guy up for a “booty call” or “uncommitted sex” or “take him home from the club” or “met him online” doesn’t mean you allow any and every ol’ thing to use up your body. You THINK you’re “in control,” and you THINK you’re using HIM, but actually, sweetie, you are allowing him to USE UP YOU and YOUR COOCH! Do You See Where I’m Coming From?
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR SINGLE MOTHERS who are tired of the dating scene and feel their household is incomplete without a man. They are tired of being alone and “having to do it all,” and they want themselves and their kids to have a “whole” family life.
However, she is CONTEMPLATING MOVING A MAN UP IN HER HOUSE WITH HER KIDS!!!!
STOP!!! HUSTLERS KNOW THAT YOU ARE LONELY, YOU WANT A “DADDY” OR “ROLE MODEL” OR “FATHER FIGURE” FOR YOUR KIDS AND YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE UP THE “KEYS” TO YOUR PERSONAL KINGDOM TO GET A MAN UP IN THERE!!!!!!!
BEFORE you move a man into your house, please read the chapter, “Stop Bringing Your Good Booty Calls To The Family Breakfast Table.”
If you’re reading this and you know a single mom that’s about to MOVE A MAN IN, GET THIS WORKBOOK AS A GIFT FOR HER!!!!
Don’t just SIT BACK AND TALK ABOUT HOW STUPID SHE IS … BEHIND HER BACK!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR WOMEN WHO QUICKLY START OUT SHOWERING THEIR MAN WITH MONEY AND CLOTHES … THEY BUY HIM WHATEVER HE WANTS AND THEY EXCESSIVELY “DO FOR” A MAN… in the hopes that he will see what a nice, good, supportive, giving and “got your back,” woman you are … and reward you with attention, affection, a committed relationship and, hopefully, marriage and the wedding of your dreams.
Nothing’s wrong with “doing for” your man … as long as y’all are DOING FOR EACH OTHER … as long as you’re BOTH getting what you need out of the relationship. Just remember that if you BUY the wrong guy NOW, you will “keep paying for him “LATER. It’s in this workbook!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR INDEPENDENT WOMEN with great jobs, their own apartment or home, their own car, good credit and six college degrees. Your money and your great job do NOT make you SAFE FROM a hustler. Just because you “got it going on” as an independent woman doesn’t mean you “got it going on” in your relationships. I’m sure you know MANY women who have great jobs who pick the WORST POSSIBLE GUYS to be in a relationship or marriage with!
(NOTE to independent, “good job,” chicks: HUSTLERS HAVE PLACED A TARGET ON YOUR BACK!! HUSTLERS ARE SEEKING YOU OUT!! And you’re jumping into relationships with them left and right, getting “used and abused” like hell … and then calling your friends every five minutes “to vent” because your man won’t “act right” and won’t “change.”
However, I’m sure you will agree with me that … all of your excessive nagging, complaining and bitching ain’t changing a damn thing!)
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR NICE, CHURCH-GOING CHICKS. I know you are looking down your nose at my workbook and its title but … no need to act arrogant, superior and elitist.
Just because you are a “Bible-smart,” church-going woman doesn’t mean you are smart in choosing men. That’s why you see so many “religious” women in the prayer line at church on Sundays begging God to send their man home and change his “worldly” ways.
“Just because you MET a man in church does not mean he’s going to STAY in the church. You church chicks still gotta go through crap just like chicks who met their man in the club, on an on-line dating site, at a PTA meeting or in the frozen food section of the grocery store.”
(NOTE TO MY CHURCH CHICKS: If you say that you’re ONLY going to marry a “God-sent” man who is in the church … and you finally marry a “church man” … and then you gotta call the cops every weekend cos he’s resumed drinking and is beating the hell out of you … who made the mistake in choosing him? You or God? Cos somebody didn’t do their homework and I’m SURE it WASN’T God! THAT’S why you need this workbook!)
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR MARRIED OR IN “LONG-TERM COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP” CHICKS … who are in abusive relationships, and won’t get out because “GETTING OUT IS HARD,” AND they are scared of being alone and getting back into the “unknown and scary” dating scene. They feel like it’s easier to “put up with” an abusive man and figure out a way to make THAT work … than to find the “will” and strength to leave and try to wallow through the murky waters of dating to find a good, NON-abusive man. They are swallowing a lot of pain, pride and hurt because they wouldn’t know what to do or how to act in the “new” dating world.
This workbook will not take any steps FOR you but it will help you decide the steps you should take for yourself. This workbook will help and guide you so that you don’t pick another abusive loser …unless, of course, you choose to.
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR THE “I’M A GOOD WOMAN, WHY CAN’T I FIND A GOOD MAN?” CHICKS … who have been IN and OUT of relationships, like REVOLVING DOORS, in search of that “one” man … and who can’t figure out why she keeps going from man to man and can’t seem to find the man to marry and have kids with. As soon as you’re out of a relationship with one WRONG man, you’re BACK AT IT AGAIN, back in the saddle, into a relationship with the next WRONG man … without taking the time to figure out why she CHOSE to deal with the LAST TWELVE “WRONG” MEN … who didn’t work out!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR WOMEN WHO KEEP “RECYCLING” MEN. You keep going back to the same ol’ man, to that “familiar” and “comfortable” ex-boyfriend who cheated on you a million times … hoping that THIS time you can change him.
You left him years ago because, even though he was a nice guy and a “good catch” who had your back … you knew he had several other women he was dealing with, and he wouldn’t commit to you or any of them. Even though y’all are broken up, you call him constantly because he listens to your struggles with dating other men, and he is still there (although on a sometime-y basis) when you need him.
What you DON’T know is that you can’t see the expression on his face when he answers your call, how he “rolls his eyes” and how he wishes that he wasn’t such a nice guy so he could tell you to MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE and STOP CALLING AND PURSUING HIM, because … YES, he’s your friend … hell, he’s EVERY WOMAN’S friend … but he’s NOBODY’S “MAN.”
This workbook will help you to CHOOSE TO “MOVE ON” so you can stop being stuck in the past … and so you can stop being part of his “collection” of ex-girlfriends cos … he AIN’T gonna make you his ONE WOMAN.
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR WOMEN WHO ARE “LOST THEMSELVES IN A MAN,” TYPE CHICKS. It’s like you don’t know who YOU are anymore because you’ve been twisting yourself into emotional pretzels trying to please your man, and to be who HE wants you to be. You’re doing all you can to serve him and keep HIM happy … your whole existence, your whole reason for BEING is about HIM … but it’s making YOU miserable, angry, bitter and tearing you up INSIDE.
Therefore … “who AM I?” and “finding your way back to YOU”-type chapters are in this workbook too!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR WOMEN WHO THINK THEY HAVE THEIR MAN “COOCHIE-WHIPPED.” Because … if you THINK you have your man coochie-whipped, sweetie, other women have him that way too!
Just because you think your man “ain’t going nowhere” cos of the way you “put that COOCH on him,” remember, other women have good coochies too! You ain’t the ONLY chick with a good cooch!
If you piss him off, or he gets tired of YOUR cooch and leaves you cos he’s had enough of yours and wants to try something different, trust me, he KNOWS where to find the next cooch!
So, quit bragging, get off your high horse and get this workbook so you’ll know how to have something ELSE to offer a “good man” other than what’s between your legs. Cos he can get THAT anywhere!
YOU do NOT hold the patent, nor the trademark nor the copyright on GOOD COOCH!!!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR THE TOUGH, MAN-EATING, HARD-SHELLED, “I’M GONNA “PLAY” MEN BEFORE THEY “PLAY” ME” CHICKS … who come across as being “oh so confident” and “on top of her game,” who has several male “friends” and married men who all give her money and pay her bills, who seems to attract many men left and right and have them eating out of her hand, who “knows it all” when it comes to men … but …..
she becomes a simpering, sniveling, begging, “put-everything-and-everybody-on-the-backburner” confused fool when it comes to her “boyfriend, ex-boyfriend or guy she WANTS to be her boyfriend” …
who refuses to commit to her … who, the more UNAVAILABLE and ELUSIVE he is, the more she CRAVES to be with him … who she RUNS after like she’s a kid waving a dollar and running for the ice cream truck … and she’s TOO WEAK to MAKE him wear a condom when she KEEPS ALLOWING HIM TO “slide by her crib” … when she KNOWS he’s just finished coming from “somebody ELSE’S crib.”
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR NEWLY-DIVORCED WOMEN WHO NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD BE SINGLE AT THIS POINT AND TIME IN THEIR LIFE AND THEY DON’T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THE SCARY “DATING” SCENE! Okay, I know you NEVER thought you would be in this situation but, face it … you ARE. That’s the first step … facing reality.
Maybe you’re still bewildered, confused, angry and hurting from the way your marriage ended. Maybe you feel unsure of yourself because you’ve just left the “safe cocoon” of your marriage, you feel like the rug was pulled out from you … and now you gotta enter this NIGHTMARE called “The Frightening Singles World” that you’ve heard your unmarried friends constantly bitch about.
This workbook is the perfect transition or “bridge” from your ended marriage to easing yourself back into the “singles” world. The “singles” world is only a nightmare when you don’t know what the hell you’re doing … or, WHO YOU’RE DOING IT WITH!
The waters are only dark and murky when you don’t have this workbook as your FLASHLIGHT! This workbook will hold your hand and help you to determine who you SHOULD deal with by showing you the “game” or “HAND OF CARDS he’s playing with” … from who you should NOT deal with. (Read that sentence again to make sure you understand it! (smile))
This workbook “ARMS” you with “use-able knowledge” because “USE-ABLE KNOWLEDGE” and INSIDE INFORMATION increase CONFIDENCE and SELF-ESTEEM … and helps you make better MAN DECISIONS and RELATIONSHIP CHOICES!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR THE HURT, ANGRY, BITTER, “I-DON’T-NEED-A-MAN,” “MEN AIN’T SH*T” CHICKS … because, if you keep HIDING BEHIND that attitude, you will NEVER find a good man. You will continue to attract hustlers.
GOOD men (the kind you’re looking for) are DONE with angry and bitter women who are SURROUNDED by “emotional walls.” They are tired of hearing how you have been continually hurt. Hell, EVERYBODY’S been hurt a time or two! YOU keeping on “announcing” how you’ve been hurt and “dogged out” by men only makes you look like YOU’RE NOT TOO BRIGHT … COS YOU KEEP ON PICKING MEN WHO YOU ALLOW TO DOG YOU OUT AND DO YOU WRONG!!
“Good Men” are bored with your same ol’,“men done me wrong” song … however, HUSTLERS LOVE YOU, THEY ADORE YOU, THEY WORSHIP YOU… and they will pat your back and say, “there, there, boo, stop your crying, baby girl, I’ll make it alright for you,” because they KNOW how to pretend to be the healing salve, to be that “good man” you yearn for … until they’ve sucked everything they need out of you, and then they pack THEIR bags (and probably some of your household belongings!) and THEY’RE GONE TOO … leaving you to DUMP ALL OF YOUR RAGE ON THE NEXT MAN YOU MEET!!
I WROTE THIS WORKBOOK FOR WOMEN WHO, AS LITTLE GIRLS, THOUGHT THEY HAD BEEN TAUGHT CORRECTLY ABOUT MEN AND RELATIONSHIPS. Then, when they got out in the REAL world, when they did “everything right” and did “everything they were told about how to be a good wife or a good woman,” they experienced CATASTROPHIC, MAJOR, DEVESTATING HURT … and they found out the truth: that they really didn’t know crap about how to deal with “TODAY’S men and relationships.”
And now … so they don’t turn into an ANGRY, PSYCHOTIC, CRAZY, WANTING-TO-GET-BACK-AT-MEN-WHO-HURT-THEM chick … they have CLOSED THEIR HEART and sworn off men because they don’t want to get hurt again … and they don’t want to “lose it” and go to jail for tearing up crap and beating somebody’s ass! They are “emotionally afraid” to deal with men because … they’ve picked WRONG before … because they don’t know HOW to go about choosing the right man for them.
Let me ask you this: Think about the many times you’ve loved and given yourself to the wrong men. Think about the times you’ve been hurt and hustled. WOULD YOU HAVE ALLOWED THAT TO HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU HAD BEEN EDUCATED DIFFERENTLY FOR THE WORLD OF TODAY’S RELATIONSHIPS? IF YOU KNEW “THE GAME,” You Probably Wouldn’t Have Made HALF Of The “Man Choices” and Relationship Mistakes You Made.
Unless you just LOVE dealing with fools and riff-raff, you would have CHOSEN differently if you had KNOWN differently, right?
Which is why I wrote this workbook for you and your friends … so you will KNOW differently … cos the same ol’, same ol’ is NOT working for you!
You can keep walking through life and keep settling for and loving the wrong men … and getting hustled and bitching and complaining …
you can get this relationship workbook, educate yourself, heal yourself and …
your relationship future.
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