RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK: WHO IS THIS **WORKBOOK** FOR?

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR SINGLE MOTHERS who are tired of the dating scene and feel their household is incomplete without a man.  They are tired of being alone and “having to do it all,” and they want themselves and their kids to have a “whole” family life. 

However, she is CONTEMPLATING MOVING A MAN UP IN HER HOUSE WITH HER KIDS!!!!

STOP!!! HUSTLERS KNOW THAT YOU ARE LONELY, YOU WANT A “DADDY” OR “ROLE MODEL” OR “FATHER FIGURE” FOR YOUR KIDS AND YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE UP THE “KEYS” TO YOUR PERSONAL KINGDOM TO GET A MAN UP IN THERE!!!!!!! 

BEFORE you move a man into your house, please read the chapter, “Stop Bringing Your Good Booty Calls To The Family Breakfast Table.”

If you’re reading this and you know a single mom that’s about to MOVE A MAN IN, GET THIS PLAYBOOK AS A GIFT FOR HER!!!!

Don’t just SIT BACK AND TALK ABOUT HOW STUPID SHE IS … BEHIND HER BACK!

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR WOMEN WHO QUICKLY START OUT SHOWERING THEIR MAN WITH MONEY AND CLOTHES … THEY BUY HIM WHATEVER HE WANTS AND THEY EXCESSIVELY “DO FOR” A MAN … in the hopes that he will see what a nice, good, supportive, giving and “got your back,” woman you are … and reward you with attention, affection, a committed relationship and, hopefully, marriage and the wedding of your dreams.

Nothing’s wrong with “doing for” your man … as long as y’all are DOING FOR EACH OTHER … as long as you’re BOTH getting what you need out of the relationship.  Just remember that if you BUY the wrong guy NOW, you will “keep paying for him” LATER.  It’s in this PLAYBOOK!

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR INDEPENDENT WOMEN with great jobs, their own apartment or home, their own car, good credit and six college degrees. Your money and your great job do NOT make you SAFE FROM a hustler. Just because you “got it going on” as an independent woman doesn’t mean you “got it going on” in your relationships. I’m sure you know MANY women who have great jobs who pick the WORST POSSIBLE GUYS to be in a relationship or marriage with!

(NOTE to independent, “good job,” chicks: HUSTLERS HAVE PLACED A TARGET ON YOUR BACK!! HUSTLERS ARE SEEKING YOU OUT!! And you’re jumping into relationships with them left and right, getting “used and abused” like hell … and then calling your friends every five minutes “to vent” because your man won’t “act right” and won’t “change.”

However, I’m sure you will agree with me that … all of your excessive nagging, complaining and bitching ain’t changing a damn thing!)

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR NICE, CHURCH-GOING CHICKS. I know you are looking down your nose at my workbook and its title but … no need to act arrogant, superior and elitist.

Just because you are a “Bible-smart,” church-going woman doesn’t mean you are smart in choosing men. That’s why you see so many “religious” women in the prayer line at church on Sundays begging God to send their man home and change his “worldly” ways.

“Just because you MET a man in church does not mean he’s going to STAY in the church. You church chicks still gotta go through crap just like chicks who met their man in the club, on an on-line dating site, at a PTA meeting or in the frozen food section of the grocery store.”

(NOTE TO MY CHURCH CHICKS: If you say that you’re ONLY going to marry a “God-sent” man who is in the church … and you finally marry a “church man” … and then you gotta call the cops every weekend cos he’s resumed drinking and is beating the hell out of you … who made the mistake in choosing him? You or God? Cos somebody didn’t do their homework and I’m SURE it WASN’T God! THAT’S why you need this playbook!)

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR MARRIED OR IN “LONG-TERM COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP” CHICKS … who are in abusive relationships, and won’t get out because “GETTING OUT IS HARD,” AND they are scared of being alone and getting back into the “unknown and scary” dating scene. They feel like it’s easier to “put up with” an abusive man and figure out a way to make THAT work … than to find the “will” and strength to leave and try to wallow through the murky waters of dating to find a good, NON-abusive man. They are swallowing a lot of pain, pride and hurt because they wouldn’t know what to do or how to act in the “new” dating world.

This *RELATIONSHIP PLAYBOOK* will not take any steps FOR you but it will help you decide the steps you should take for yourself.  This *RELATIONSHIP PLAYBOOK* will help and guide you so that you don’t pick another abusive loser …unless, of course, you choose to.

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR THE “I’M A GOOD WOMAN, WHY CAN’T I FIND A GOOD MAN?” CHICKS … who have been IN and OUT of relationships, like REVOLVING DOORS, in search of that “one” man … and who can’t figure out why she keeps going from man to man and can’t seem to find the man to marry and have kids with. As soon as you’re out of a relationship with one WRONG man, you’re BACK AT IT AGAIN, back in the saddle, into a relationship with the next WRONG man … without taking the time to figure out why she CHOSE to deal with the LAST TWELVE “WRONG” MEN … who didn’t work out!

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR WOMEN WHO KEEP “RECYCLING” MEN.   You keep going back to the same ol’ man, to that “familiar” and “comfortable” ex-boyfriend who cheated on you a million times … hoping that THIS time you can change him.

You left him years ago because, even though he was a nice guy and a “good catch” who had your back … you knew he had several other women he was dealing with, and he wouldn’t commit to you or any of them. Even though y’all are broken up, you call him constantly because he listens to your struggles with dating other men, and he is still there (although on a sometime-y basis) when you need him.

What you DON’T know is that you can’t see the expression on his face when he answers your call, how he “rolls his eyes” and how he wishes that he wasn’t such a nice guy so he could tell you to MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE and STOP CALLING AND PURSUING HIM, because … YES, he’s your friend … hell, he’s EVERY WOMAN’S friend … but he’s NOBODY’S “MAN.”

This *RELATIONSHIP PLAYBOOK* will help you to CHOOSE TO “MOVE ON” so you can stop being stuck in the past … and so you can stop being part of his “collection” of ex-girlfriends cos … he AIN’T gonna make you his ONE WOMAN.

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I WROTE THIS *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* FOR WOMEN WHO HAVE “LOST THEMSELVES IN A MAN,” TYPE CHICKS. It’s like you don’t know who YOU are anymore because you’ve been twisting yourself into emotional pretzels trying to please your man, and to be who HE wants you to be. You’re doing all you can to serve him and keep HIM happy … your whole existence, your whole reason for BEING is about HIM … but it’s making YOU miserable, angry, bitter and tearing you up INSIDE.

Therefore … “who AM I?” and “finding your way back to YOU”-type chapters are in this *RELATIONSHIP WORKBOOK* too!